What’s up Fish?

I need your advice! Two weeks ago I went through my bf’s phone call records and found out he’s been texting his ‘good friend’. They have been friends well before I met him, she is a married woman. When I first met my bf he brought me out to her child’s communion and that day whatever way she was looking at me all night I could feel envy and it made me feel uncomfortable so I had asked him before if he had ever had a relationship with her and he swore on his brother’s grave he never kissed a girl since he met me so I believed him and he deleted all the girl’s number’s in his phone. Well two days ago I went through his phone again and saw he had received txt messages from her number again. Should I trust that they are just friends and stop being kind of psycho or is there something going on between them? Please Help!!

Melissa

Kingston

Hey Fish! Need some help! Two weeks ago my girlfriend and I went to the bar with her friend’s. All night her and her friends flirted with the bartender. That part didn’t really bother me they were having fun and I get that. I mean me and my girl have a very strong relationship so that’s not really a big deal to me. But when the bartender brought or check to us at the end of the night he bought the last round and handed my girlfriend his number right in front of me. The worst part is she pocketed it right in front of me like it was nothing. I didn’t make a big deal out of it because I didn’t want to create a scene and I’m a pretty confident guy and her and her friends were messing with him all night. So really it’s not his fault. But shouldn’t my girlfriend have told him I was her boyfriend or at the very least thrown the number away. Am I being paranoid that she might be thinking about cheating on me?    

Matt

Freeland

Hey Fish need your help. Last weekend my 22 yr old son was home from school as he was preparing to head back Sunday night my wife asked him if he needed anything for his apartment. He replied with no I’m taken care of. Well my wife being my wife, kept asking him are you sure you don’t need anything? He then dropped this bomb on us. Turns out he moved out of his apartment and in with his friend’s mother. Now normally this wouldn’t be a big deal but he’s not dating his friend he’s dating her 40 yr old twice divorced mother!! How do I get my son away from this potentially damaging situation? Not only is this a major distraction from his school work but I don’t see how this relationship can work. What do I do?  

Chris

Jersey Shore

Hey, Fish

My 16-year-old son is in his first “real” relationship.  I trust him, and completely approve of his girlfriend, who’s very sweet and mature for a 16-year-old. But my husband isn’t quite as trusting and he always keeps a close watch on the two of them when she’s at our house. My son wants to cook his girlfriend a special dinner on Valentine’s Day, and he asked us if we could leave the house for a few hours to give them some privacy. I’m fine leaving them alone  but my husband seems to think that we should chaperone, so no “touchy-feely” nonsense goes on. Isn’t my 16-year-old son cooking his girlfriend a Valentine’s Day dinner harmless?  Should we leave them alone?  Or should we keep an eye on them because they’re too young?

Kate

Ashley

My boyfriend has been out of a job for about a year now, so he has never gotten me anything for my birthday or Christmas. Well this year for Valentine’s Day he is planning on proposing. The only reason I know is because his mom has a big mouth and it slipped out the last time I was with her. Anyway I know he doesn’t have enough money to afford a ring. So is it ok to get engaged without a ring? I mean he wants to propose on Valentine’s Day which is so sweet but will our friends and family take us seriously if I don’t get a ring? Please help.

Maryanne

Trucksville.

Hey Fish I have a question I hope you and your listeners can answer. My boyfriend and I have been together for a month, and this past weekend was the first time I spent the night at his place. His apartment is a typical “guy’s apartment” a lot of dark colors and “guy stuff” on the walls. The only weird thing about his apartment was his bathroom.  He has like, three different jars full of bath salts . . . as well as bath bubbles and “scented oils” for the bathtub. I asked him about it, and he said he likes to take baths sometimes to relax. Is it weird for men to take baths?  Aren’t baths more of a “woman thing?”  Should my boyfriend have all these bath products?  Isn’t buying this stuff kind of girly?

What do you guys think?

Sarah

Hey my name is Jonelle and I have a problem that I’m hoping you and your listeners can help me with. I’m a freshman at Bloomsburg and just turned 18. Anyway my roommates at college and I are planning a trip to Miami for Spring Break.  I’m so excited because this will be my first trip without my parents!  There’s only one problem I haven’t told them yet. Now that I’m 18 I feel that I have earned this since I’m a full time student and waitress on the weekends. So I have the money and great grades. But my parents are very strict and since they help pay for college I don’t think they will let me go. What should I do?

5: Trampoline Basketball

4: Lightsaber Fencing

 3: Women’s Wii Fit

2: Indoor BMX Jousting

 1: Chess Boxing

Hey Fish! It’s RJ from Tunkhannock and I need some help. Last year I ended things with the girl I was dating because she was cheating on me! Since then I have completely moved on. Well recently whenever I go out it seems my ex- is there. Now I know this is a small area and all but every time I turn around she’s there. Is this just ironic or is she actually planning this? Either way it’s bad because the girl I’m currently dating is furious and wants to confront her. I want to avoid this at all costs! So what do I do?  Please help!!!

Yo Fish!!! This is Rob from Hamlin and I need some help!! I’ve been with my girl for over a year and we really do love each other!!! The other night we were talking about pawning some of our ex’s past gifts so we could go away. I know this shouldn’t bother me but the grand total of things she could pawn are in the thousands! This worries me because a lot of the gifts she received were very expensive and I could never afford to buy her stuff like that. So this made wonder I’m I not good enough because of this?  Is this something to truly worry about or am I being ridiculous?