
Last week we spent some time on the air talking about Lissa’s friend that suspects her boyfriend is cheating on her. The friend has decided to confront the other woman.
Personally, I think this is a dumb idea. What is to be gained by calling the other woman out? Does it make any difference if the guy cheated once, or if this has been going on for a year?
Lots of you disagreed.
Here’s just some of the texts we got on this hot topic: Confronting the other woman…good or bad idea?
~Rock
Absolutely not - just walk away its not worth the energy or emotion. Once a cheater always a cheater.
I confronted the girl. It ended in hospital visits.
I met the other woman for coffee because I had a feeling she didn’t know…she didn’t..he was playing both of us…divorced now and she kicked him to the curb.
She should talk to her because maybe she doesnt know and she will dump his cheating ass too.
I would confront the other women! What if she really has no idea, if I was the other woman and had no idea I would want to be confronted!
If she does do it, don’t tell the other woman she is his girlfriend until she gets her info.
Let it go. Move on.
As someone who has been on the receiving end of the cheater, I also wanted details. All I did was torture myself emotionally. I found myself wondering why he wanted her instead of me. Years later he told me it had nothing to do with me, it was his insecure nature. I think she knows all she needs to know.
In the state of PA it is illegal to record someone without their consent i would not advise your friend to record this man.
If they are married then approach the husband, if just dating LEAVE him ALONE. Drop him like it’s hot.
If your friend can remain calm, then it’s a great idea but if she even has the slightest thought that she will lose it, then don’t do it. I agree to more info before she approaches her.
I did confront the other woman and it didn’t make me feel any better. In fact it made me feel a thousand times worse.
I’d ask the girl! You will most likely to get the true story from her, cause he’s not going admit anything…and I’d want to know details.
My husband cheated on me and I found out who it was. I contacted her and I was nice to her as much as it killed me, because u can catch more flies with honey. well she sang like a bird and it turns out he was lying to us both. He is with her now and I have the satisfaction of lmao because he is miserable!
I have confronted the other girl. she didnt know he had a gf. we both confronted him. he walked away with no gf!
I feel where your friend is coming from BUT if it’s over just let it be. It is what it is! Finding out details will only make it harder to get over the situation.
I did confront the other woman because she used to be one of my best friends and she lied to my face about it.
If that was me I’d absolutely ask the other girl details so when I broke up with him I could throw it all in his face. Use it as ammunition.
Absolutely confront her! Not to fight but to be your own personal satisfaction. May show him that she, his girlfriend , is not a pushover.
Do NOT let her confront the girl. My last relationship ended because he cheated. I too wanted answers and it was worse knowing than if I would have just let it go. Karma had a way of giving him what he deserves.
Let it go. He cheated for a reason so why start trouble? Would u want him back? Of course not.